The Feeling of “Happy-Sad” for 2020: Trying to Let Go of the Year

The Feeling of “Happy-Sad” for 2020: Trying to Let Go of the Year

A while back I dated a man who was eager and dedicated to understanding his emotions. He had received little training in emotional intelligence when growing up. We joked that he knew four emotions: happy, sad, frustrated, and angry. When he was learning to identify and articulate his emotions…

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The Most Important Key to Giving the "Sex Talk"

The Most Important Key to Giving the "Sex Talk"

Think about a person in your life who you trust and who feels accessible to you. If you have a difficult, confusing, or uncomfortable topic to address, this is a person who you turn to, to discuss the topic. Think about these questions in relation to your interactions with that person: Are you scared to ask them difficult questions? Do they make you feel embarrassed or ashamed? Do they tease you?

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How to Spot a Cheating Partner - Experts Weigh In

How to Spot a Cheating Partner - Experts Weigh In

If you notice changes in the following four categories of behavior then you might have a cheater on your hands. First, if they start taking care of their body and appearance more than usual. Going to the gym or working out in the garage, a new haircut or style, new clothes…

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What sex question do college students ask me most?

What sex question do college students ask me most?

I was recently asked this question by a university administrator, and since I think the variety of directions that a response can go, I wanted to share it here. “What is a common question you've received from college students about sexuality that you think it's important to address/answer?” Well…it’s all about female orgasm!

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Old MacDonald Had a SEXY Farm!

Old MacDonald Had a SEXY Farm!

Oh, I had a lot of fun writing the lyrics to Old MacDonald Had a Sexy Farm and rehearsing it the past few months! And as you’ll see, I had trouble not laughing while I recorded this! If Old MacDonald had a sexy, sex-positive (and maybe even kinky) farm, what kinds of things might he have on his farm?!

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