Is There Any Place for Men’s Sexual Energy in the Workplace (Like Andrew Cuomo’s)?

Is There Any Place for Men’s Sexual Energy in the Workplace (Like Andrew Cuomo’s)?

Whoa, this just got uncomfortable, I thought to myself. I was standing and speaking to a group of powerful, primarily white, male business owners, and I had just suggested that they should be responsible and turn off their sexual energy in the workplace. And from their uncomfortable murmurs…

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What Parents Need to Talk about with Sex & Consent

What Parents Need to Talk about with Sex & Consent

In this interview, I discuss how to address sex and intimacy in marriage after one’s kids are out of the house. But we really delved into, and got heated about, how to prepare your kids to be responsible around sexual consent!

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My Ex-Boyfriend Just Apologized Because of Aziz Ansari

My Ex-Boyfriend Just Apologized Because of Aziz Ansari

Within hours of each other, several male friends privately contacted me. They sent the Babe article of the detailed account by a woman named “Grace” of comedian Aziz Ansari’s sexual behavior on a first date. Was this just a “date gone bad” or was this actually a harmful #metoo experience?

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Dear Men in Power: I Know You're Scared.

Dear Men in Power: I Know You're Scared.

Dear Men in Power, I know you’re scared. Maybe you haven’t slept well in the past two months since the #MeToo movement took its stride. Perhaps you lie awake at night thinking back to those times you might have crossed a line with a female employee...

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