Does Choking Now Count as "Vanilla" Sex?

Does Choking Now Count as "Vanilla" Sex?

I was dismayed to learn that choking has become more common in sexual hook-ups for millennials. I’m dismayed because this is usually without conversation or consent—there’s a new assumption that a woman wants to be choked as part of her sexual play….

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Dating Disaster Stories from a "Terrible Dater"

Dating Disaster Stories from a "Terrible Dater"

“He was leaning over me on the sofa, kissing my neck. Then I realized he was also checking a new Bumble message on his phone.”

I was interviewed on the San Diego morning news along with Sabrina Must, the author of a new book on her personal dating disaster stories….

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Valentine's event for single folks in San Diego

Valentine's event for single folks in San Diego

Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus, sociologist and intimacy speaker, is hosting this Valentine’s Day event for single folks in San Diego! Enjoy facilitated interactive activities as you not only meet new people and have fun, but learn new skills in the process…February 13 at 7:30pm…

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Totally normal thoughts to have before sex

Totally normal thoughts to have before sex

I was interviewed by writer Theresa Holland for this article in Elite Daily: “Sex can be a lot of fun, but can also sometimes be awkward, embarrassing, and nerve-wracking. Before doing the deed, your mind might start to wander. But don't worry….

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Single & Dating Part II -- Gaps in Age, Religion, & Mindful Sex Conversations

Single & Dating Part II -- Gaps in Age, Religion, & Mindful Sex Conversations

We had so much fun recently on the Everyday Mindfulness Show talking about being single, dating, online dating, and mindfulness...that we decided to do a Part II. This time we delved into age gaps, religion and faith, openly discussing sexual interests....

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