Insecurities that Married Women have with Sex & Intimacy

Insecurities that Married Women have with Sex & Intimacy

“Is there anything about sex or intimacy that you feel insecure about? This summer I’m conducting a Sex & Vulnerability online survey and at almost 200 respondents so far, the results are already incredibly interesting and thought-provoking. Normally I would wait until I’ve closed the window on receiving any new survey responses, but…

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Is There Any Place for Men’s Sexual Energy in the Workplace (Like Andrew Cuomo’s)?

Is There Any Place for Men’s Sexual Energy in the Workplace (Like Andrew Cuomo’s)?

Whoa, this just got uncomfortable, I thought to myself. I was standing and speaking to a group of powerful, primarily white, male business owners, and I had just suggested that they should be responsible and turn off their sexual energy in the workplace. And from their uncomfortable murmurs…

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A Sexual Email I Received...and What Coercion Looks Like

A Sexual Email I Received...and What Coercion Looks Like

Last week I received an email from someone I don’t know. It read: Hello, I have for a long long time loved to watch a Female Professional wear Closed Toe High Heel Pumps/Shoes while I Self Pleasure just looking at her but directly watching shoe play. I definitely prefer this over any other sex opportunity. I love asking to do this and would love to pay for a session…

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Take My "Sex & Vulnerability" Survey!

Take My "Sex & Vulnerability" Survey!

I could use your help if you're up for some sexual intimacy reflection?! For the summer of 2021, I launched an anonymous "Sex & Vulnerability" survey with 9 open-ended questions, to read in people's own words what is most vulnerable and real for them around sexual and emotional intimacy!

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How to Have the Sex Talk - Free Video Course for Parents

How to Have the Sex Talk - Free Video Course for Parents

Let’s Talk About Sex is a new 3-part video course for parents, that I created in collaboration with Planned Parenthood of the Pacific Southwest. “How do I not screw up my kid around sex?” “How can I do better than how my parents did?” “How can I handle difficult topics and help my teen feel comfortable talking to me?”

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