I Don't Want Sex with My Partner/My Partner Doesn't Desire Me Anymore

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What can you do if you don’t want sex with your partner anymore…but they still want sex?

What does it mean if you’re not feeling desire anymore?

Is sexual chemistry a real thing?

In May 2020 the Consciousness Hacking meetup group in San Diego hosted me for a live Zoom “Ask the Expert” event, and I fielded a range of anonymous questions about sex, love, desire, intimacy, and dating.

Several of the questions were about lack of sex in a long-term relationship, and what low libido means in a long-term relationship, so I grouped those 3 questions together in this video.

The factors I address include:

  • Aspects of desire

  • Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are

  • What sex means to you

  • Body-image

  • Impacts of anti-depressants on desire

  • Shame and embarrassment

  • Practicing meditation masturbation

  • Pheromones

  • Demi-sexual

  • Sexual trauma

  • Birth Control

Enjoy!!!

~Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus, San Diego Keynote Speaker, Intimacy Coach, & Sociologist