Are you Asking the Right Questions for Good Intimacy?
/Why not use the new year as a reason to pause and reflect on your intimate life? But it’s important to ask the right questions…and sometimes those are the most vulnerable ones.
Read MoreDr. Jenn Gunsaullus, sociologist and sexologist, writes her sex advice and gender commentary blog. The sex blog includes relationship advice, free sex education videos, sex tips, sex-positive mindfulness, and podcast interviews.
Why not use the new year as a reason to pause and reflect on your intimate life? But it’s important to ask the right questions…and sometimes those are the most vulnerable ones.
Read MoreI love the holidays. And I love sexual humor. I also love being silly. This parody merges all 3 of those! It is my lyrics for the 12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas — you know, what the “true love” of the 12 Days of Christmas might give to a sexologist like me. ;)
Read MoreDo conversations in your relationship about money, and conversations about sex, have a similar uncomfortable vibe? This is common for many couples because there can be a lot of societal and personal fears and misunderstandings around these topics….
Read MoreMore than 1/3 of adults in the United States are single. What impact did the pandemic have on what single people are most looking for? And specifically, what factor do you think was stated to be the most desirable in a romantic partner? Good sex? Because there was so much less physical contact and fewer sexual encounters during the pandemic?
Read MoreImagine this: You’re hooking up with a guy who you kind of like and are definitely attracted to. It seems like you’re headed towards sexual intercourse – which you want -- so you ask if he has a condom. He pulls one from his drawer, and although it’s dim in the room, you see him roll it down his penis….
Read MoreWhen I was recently working with a client couple I asked about their ongoing “homework” of sharing “daily gratitudes” with each other. I had suggested this as homework for the past eight months because it quickly became apparent that they were more connected and harmonious when they committed to this brief but intentional activity every day…
Read MoreDr. Jenn is a sociologist and relationship & sexuality speaker who challenges our cultural beliefs around sex, sexual consent, gender roles, and health intimacy, with a mindfulness and compassionate approach. Her site includes a sex blog, free sex education videos, sexuality speaking information, and mindfulness resources.