Film Screening of "The Mask You Live In" on the Emotional Development of Boys

Film Screening of "The Mask You Live In" on the Emotional Development of Boys

What is it like for a boy who is taught he needs to be tough to act like a man, but also feels fear? What is it like for a young man who isn’t supposed to show “weakness” and the only emotion that he can express is anger? This is the reality for many boys and young men growing up in the United States with a specific version of “masculinity” training.

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Trailblazer in the Sex Field - SD Voyager Magazine

Trailblazer in the Sex Field - SD Voyager Magazine

What was my life path that led to my career in the sex field? What challenges have I had to overcome? What am I currently focused on, and what am I most proud of? Was there something from my life that helped set me up for success? SD Voyager Magazine interviewed me for their “Women Trailblazers” series…

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Does Choking Now Count as "Vanilla" Sex?

Does Choking Now Count as "Vanilla" Sex?

I was dismayed to learn that choking has become more common in sexual hook-ups for millennials. I’m dismayed because this is usually without conversation or consent—there’s a new assumption that a woman wants to be choked as part of her sexual play….

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Dating Disaster Stories from a "Terrible Dater"

Dating Disaster Stories from a "Terrible Dater"

“He was leaning over me on the sofa, kissing my neck. Then I realized he was also checking a new Bumble message on his phone.”

I was interviewed on the San Diego morning news along with Sabrina Must, the author of a new book on her personal dating disaster stories….

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