What to Say or Do After Sex...and What NOT To!

What to Say or Do After Sex...and What NOT To!

What do most people say or do after sex? Is it sexy, or completely the opposite? Many times it’s really unsexy, and could lead to a strong disconnection. There's a funny hashtag on Twitter, #ThingsISayAfterSex, which offers some good examples of the unsexy things that people say ("Where's the remote?").

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#WhyIMarch - Women's March on Washington

#WhyIMarch - Women's March on Washington

I'm in Washington, DC, and I just finished making my march signs while all my east coast friends here are already asleep. While it feels like a no-brainer for me, since I'm in the sex & gender field and have previously been involved with activism, to be here for this women's march, I've been reflecting on the various reasons why this march matters to me.

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Mormon Sex...and Consent

Mormon Sex...and Consent

Mormon sex! A topic that's not often discussed publicly, but I was happy to be interviewed for a 2nd time by a Mormon Sex Therapist. We discussed my sexual consent video, and in her words: "Dr. Gunsaullus offers us a rare and vulnerable look into the complexities of consent. Not the type of consent that is obvious (i.e. don't rape a woman when she is unconscious or inebriated), but..."

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Sexy Halloween Costumes: The Good, Bad, & Ugly

Sexy Halloween Costumes: The Good, Bad, & Ugly

Sigh, yes, it's that time of year again when almost anything you can think of is turned into a "sexy" version for the sale of Halloween costumes. Sexy Donald Trump? Sexy Hillary? Sexy Ronald McDonald, Ebola nurse, Smiling Pile of Poo! (I'm serious.) I discussed Sexy Halloween Costumes on San Diego Living....

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Our Biggest Misconceptions about Sex

Our Biggest Misconceptions about Sex

Have you been disappointed with sex in a long-term relationship? Many have, and I think that's because we're taught a lot of falsehoods about sex. So what are the keys to creating a great sex life? And why do I do the work that I do around sex, gender, and communication? These questions and more were asked when Jim Simcoe, interviewed me...

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