New to Online Dating? My tips for San Diego Magazine...

New to Online Dating? My tips for San Diego Magazine...

I have talked to many folks over the years who have left a long-term relationship or marriage and are trying online dating for the first time. With the stress and changes in our lives due to the pandemic, it’s likely we’re going to see a noticeable uptick in divorces in the next year or so. I was interviewed for the February issue of San Diego Magazine…

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Using blindfolds during sex? Ask Dr. Jenn

Using blindfolds during sex? Ask Dr. Jenn

Q: Why/how is her/him wearing a blindfold different from me wearing a blindfold? A: A: For the person who is wearing a blindfold, they are surrendering some power and control to their partner. While this can feel scary, it can also feel very arousing because they can’t see what is happening or what is coming next….

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What is great sex? Interview on the LUVBITES podcast

What is great sex? Interview on the LUVBITES podcast

I was recently a guest on the LUVBITES podcast with Dr. Tara, a professor and researcher on sexual communication. This is her description of our podcast topic: “The Question of the Century: What exactly is great sex? For episode #16, I chatted with Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus…”

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12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas -- A Parody

12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas -- A Parody

I love the holidays. And I love sexual humor. I also love being silly. This parody merges all 3 of those! It is my lyrics for the 12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas — you know, what the “true love” of the 12 Days of Christmas might give to a sexologist like me. ;)

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How to Have the Sex Talk - Free Video Course for Parents

How to Have the Sex Talk - Free Video Course for Parents

Let’s Talk About Sex is a new 3-part video course for parents, that I created in collaboration with Planned Parenthood of the Pacific Southwest. “How do I not screw up my kid around sex?” “How can I do better than how my parents did?” “How can I handle difficult topics and help my teen feel comfortable talking to me?”

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Bullsh*t Vulnerability & Authenticity on Social Media & Instagram

Bullsh*t Vulnerability & Authenticity on Social Media & Instagram

Authenticity and vulnerability. We’ve learned that these are good things, yes? According to researcher and author Brene Brown, folks who cultivate these characteristics are able to live happier, more connected, and more satisfying lives. So why am I calling “bullshit” on vulnerability and authenticity right now?

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